Why would I ruin that, for an ego trip? So hang out with them, and treat them well. Maybe watch a movie, go for food, tell each other stories.
This post made me smile,laugh and a little bit curious. All of my long-term relationships included sex within one week of our first date, and sometimes even on our first date. We waited nearly a month before doing it, and it was awful. Great post and great tips!! I think a good expiry date is months of regular benefits.
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Sounds awfully tedious, I shall pass. For some people, intimacy means needing to have a lot of shared history and emotional attachment to their partners.
We see that with the Casual Sex Project all the time. But that extends to men, too. And you should celebrate that by finding people around you who are going to accept and love you. A lot of guilt comes from social disapproval and stigma. Some of us got luckier than others because we got less suppression and guilt instilled in us growing up—depending on whether we grew up in very religious versus less religious families. So guilt can make casual sex less intimate?
Research shows that for highly sexual women, it takes 10 or 15 years before they stop feeling guilty about wanting sex so often and with so many different people. I think a lot of straight guys understand female approaches to sexuality as something very different than their own. A lot of the time, men withhold intimacy in casual encounters because they are afraid if they did show more intimacy and passion, the women would get attached and want something more.
I think that often leads to less intimacy, and therefore, less good casual encounters then we could all be having. Is there a right way for guys to be honest about their intentions within a casual sex relationship?
Cuddle and reaffirm that what they did was great. If our culture is going to have a lot of casual sex, a lot of education needs to be done in order to teach people how to do it well. Have you noticed or researched any specific positive outcomes when people have more casual sex? Sex in and of itself is good. There are all sorts of physical and mental health benefits..