Her main concerns were cost, discretion and health risks. Just looking at the physical appearance of the guy - and the fact that he's a personal trainer - made me feel more confident. Adria says he spends time making himself look good and expects the same from clients. Several emails and text messages later, Davies flew from her Queensland home to meet James in the foyer of a Sydney hotel. After heading up to her room together, James asked for his money and then asked Davies to take a shower.
After the shower, they moved to the couch, where he started to undress her. It was the first time Davies had taken off her clothes in front of a man other than her husband or her doctor. She knew this was a job for James - just work, nothing more - but says there was still a thrill in knowing that having sex with her wasn't going to be a chore for him. All Davies will divulge of the experience are the comments, "Believe me, it was good. I certainly wasn't disappointed.
Ryan James looks exactly as he does in his online photos: For seven years, he had a brain-corroding desk job in finance. It is a job, but it's a very enjoyable job. There are a few things James wants to clarify about his profession.
First, he's not in this job because he has an unusually high libido. As soon as they're with a client they're not particularly attracted to, they fail. James thinks for a minute. Second, he says, no one is forcing him to do this.
In fact, he's never heard of any heterosexual male escort who's been forced into the profession - they choose to be there. Finally, says James, there's nothing wrong or damaged about him, or anyone else he knows who works in his field. I read him a quote by writer, Fairfax columnist and anti-pornography crusader Melinda Tankard Reist: Some are doctors, lawyers or psychologists, but they prefer not to do that as they find this work more rewarding. After her session with James, Davies felt renewed.
She sent him a text message that said, "Thank you so much - I've had the experience of a lifetime. You're an amazing person that's [sic] made me very happy. As she tells me this, Davies starts to cry. It was a moment of feeling self-worth and feeling special, feeling like I was someone It had been a long time, "a hell of a long time, probably the majority of my marriage, to be quite honest" - since anyone had made Davies feel that way.
He is lovely to me, he makes me feel like a woman. It's business, but I still feel very desirable with him. Davies is now a semi-regular client of James. When he comes to the hotel room, she now knows to leave the money on the side table before they start. She also feels her time with him has helped clarify her relationship with her husband, settled old scores about his affairs - at least in her mind - and made her reconsider the potential for other men in her life.
It's impossible to determine how many male escorts work in Australia, but agencies and workers will tell you there are more female sex workers than male, and definitely more male-for-male sex workers than male-for-female. Exclusively heterosexual male escort work is still a niche industry in Australia. The market is so new that Cameron Cox, of Sydney's Sex Workers' Outreach Project, says that five years ago one Sydney escort agency even approached gay male sex workers to do "straight for pay".
But every straight male escort I spoke to said business had only picked up since they started working. The industry may be boutique, but if you're good, your client base will grow. Over the past year, James may only have had 30 clients, but many are repeat customers who book him every fortnight.
Women like Davies - caught in unhappy relationships - form part of James's clientele, but he is also hired by businesswomen who need a date, young women, married couples and men who want to watch him having sex with their wives.
Similarly, there's no such thing as a "typical escort". If you're interested in escorting and don't resemble a muscled, waxed calendar boy, you needn't despair. In the US, there is an escort named Sugar Weasel who will, upon request, arrive at your home or hotel dressed as a white-bodied clown.
Another male escort named Vincent splits time between Washington DC and Toronto and describes himself as an "adult entertainment entrepreneur". Vincent is in his 70s. Apparently, both are popular. John Oh, 41, is a cm, Sydney-based male escort with pale skin, prematurely grey hair and big hands. He looks like a handsome naturopath. Most of his clients are older women who have teenage or grown-up children and the idea of having sex with someone in their 20s gives them the creeps.
Forty-seven is a very specific age, I say. A lot of women get to 47 and find themselves single again. Oh's one-bedroom Sydney apartment, which he rents exclusively for sex work, is a slick, modern affair that resembles a hotel suite.
There's a stainless-steel kitchen, a large flat-screen TV hooked up to music, and an acoustic guitar on a stand. The mattress on the bedroom floor doesn't have a base and still has crumpled sheets, most likely from his last booking, which only finished an hour before we meet. When a client visits Oh, he'll buzz her in and then they'll share a cup of tea or a glass of wine.
It's all rather wholesome. His next step is always to offer a massage so he can initiate more physical contact without the client having to request it. They've come out of a relationship - a marriage of 20 or 30 years - so they may have had very few partners in their lives.
The prospect of getting back into dating is hugely intimidating. What they're looking for is a soft beginning. Her seven-year relationship with a woman had ended and she wanted to ease herself back into the world of men without resorting to the bar and club scene. Ward is a likeable, energetic year-old, based in Sydney, who works as a cosmetic surgery nurse - "Botox, fillers, that sort of thing" - and has an infectious toucan squawk of a laugh.
She wears sequinned, body-hugging clothes and has bold magenta streaks in her hair. You get the sense she'd have no problems picking up anyone of either sex. Ward also felt self-conscious about her weight at the time. She is athletic and healthy-looking when we meet, but weighed more than kilograms when she broke up with her partner. As a bigger woman, she didn't like the prospect of going to a bar by herself.
She made the booking, had her hair and make-up done, took the day off work and booked a hotel in Potts Point. Wearing a double-denim ensemble, he has tanned skin, dark shiny hair, calf-like brown eyes and a stud in his left ear. At 27, he is already a veteran of the industry. The first time he was paid for sex, he was Finally, she asked him what time he finished his shift, adding, "Since I paid you for your services, can you return the favour? He figured he'd earned a lot of money in a short period of time, and that hospitality wages weren't great.
Our connections, feeling, mutual attractions may and are often real, but at the end of the day, nothing can come about from it like the risks that are associated with an affair. There is often a desire to experiment after having a mismatched sex drive with their partner — and hence want sex, but not an affair. They can enter a secure safe place or a public bar, get to know the person, but always aware of what is around the corner.
An escort is not a means of finding if the grass is greener on the other side. However, if often awakens many different feelings, about life, their passion, their relationship. I have been seeing some clients for over 10 years now and to some extent I am the glue I their relationship, even though the partner may be totally aware of my existence.
There are no physical records of credit card transactions, often initial contact or subsequent bookings are made by email and the whole experience is held in strict confidence between the client and escort. I am surprised how hard it is for single and married women to find good men out there. There is a male shortage out there. So sometimes women like to shake it up a bit and hire a professional who knows what he is doing, but always, the woman is in control.
I come across of lot of women who have been treated appallingly by men, who show no respect or common courtesies, let alone know what a woman wants or needs. Single mums are probably the largest single category of women that use my service. This is very common, inspired by movies or their own sexual desires or fantasy, they want to have that experience. An experience where you are free to give voice to your most deeply concealed fantasies and live them out in safe, judgement free space?
It not uncommon that women cannot discuss these fantasies with their partner, so they seek out someone like me. The women who see me are not interested in just any old sex; they were after something far more fulfilling than that. Women that I spoke to have held deep emotions around their experiences with me, however all had felt empowered by their choice to engage me to meet their physical and emotional needs.
This one surprises me the most. Very attractive women, that may have a normal or higher sex drive, or need for sensual romantic needs that I am able to provide. Half the guys out there do not know what they already have. So, some seek me out because they miss the sexual touch and intimacy. But many women wanted something different. Often, they had sexual fantasies of being spanked, tied up, or dominated in some way.
The levels of trust required are considerable. Many of the women I have spoken to described feelings of shame around their fantasy. They often do not feel guilty about what they have done. Usually women travelling married or single, these women often admit they never ever thought they would consider paying for sex.
Often the booking starts out as a companion, dinner date drinks, But the option is always there for more. So often a woman travelling, on holidays and bored, single mums, or generally a planned rendezvous, there is often a fantasy or sexual desire to have sex with a stranger. But it must be safe and with someone who knows what they are doing.
The soft touches add a level of excitement and often is enough to provide that release that a woman may be after. It may be that the woman may be looking for more, but they are uncertain of what they want or how to express their desires.
Visiting a male escort can be a major milestone on the path to reclaiming their right to receiving erotic pleasure. There is a need to create a safe space in which to explore sexual desires which is a reoccurring theme with the women I have seen.
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I can feel my whole body starting to eagerly await the contact with your skin, loving the feel of your body parts as they rub against me. I can feel the warm touch of your tongue tracing around my nipples traveling down along my stomach around my navel and my hips move slightly with the anticipation of your tongue sliding further down to my moist pussy.
I am amazed by the way I can feel you more intensely as my body reacts to my lack of sight, this is sending me into a new level of sexual arousal, each contact with you making me more eager for your next touch.
My mind races into confusion as your touch seems to be everywhere at once, yet I know you can only be touching one or two places at a time. This sends me into deeper arousal and I am longer for you to stop teasing me with your touch and let your dick finally enter my aching pussy. You sense my heavy breathing and understanding my need, you firmly roll me on to my stomach and draw my hips up so that I am now on my knees with my head resting on my hands on the blanket.
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The sensation of you entering a little bit deeper then withdrawing each time is beyond belief. I can feel you in a way I never have before and this position makes everything feel different and exciting.
Finally you enter me fully and my body rocks in rhythm with your thrusting to take as much of you inside me as I possibly can.
I feel your hands leave my hips but you do not stop the slow deep thrusting that is driving me mad with pleasure. I can now feel your fingers reach under and start to play with my clit.
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I feel my legs start to twitch, and I feel my whole body approaching orgasm. Sensing this, you maintain the same rhythm, and fingering of my clit, yet you manage to lean over and let your hot breath blow across the back of neck and your other hand squeezes my nipple firmly, almost painfully. These extra sensations are too much to bear and my whole body rocks as my orgasm explodes around my clit and in my pussy.
I scream out with pleasure and feel the throbbing sensation of my orgasm ripple through every part of my body and I slump forward slightly forward and you slowly let your dick slide back out of me. I feel your dick sliding along the top of my arse as your rhythm increases I hear a deep moan and feel your hot cum spurt up along my back. I love the feel of it as it hits my skin with heat that is so welcome even on a hot day like today.
You hold me in place, not letting me move and I can feel you standing back up. I want to move, but somehow you manage to hold me in place with a firm hand letting me know not to move. I notice a used condom on the sand nearby and smile that you thought you needed to use one after all this time.
I hear your husky voice tell me now to roll over and lie down, you tell me that it is now your turn for some fun. I remove my blindfold to see you and to challenge you that surely what we just did was fun for you too. As my eyes become accustomed to the light, I see you kneeling next to me with the cheekiest grin on your face that I have ever seen, and I notice a man walking away from us. I look back at the man walking away and wonder, the thoughts and possibilities running through my mind making me surprisingly wet.
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